See what happens – between you
Understand your patterns and get suggestions you can use tomorrow.
The whole family takes a short test – children from age 6 and teenagers get an age-adapted version. You get a report with strengths, differences, and suggestions for everyday life.
- You each answer separately – kids and teens get an age-adapted version
- Private and no strings attached – not therapy, no diagnosis, no third party
- You can start alone, or just two of you, before inviting the rest
Start your free profile in 10–15 min. Buy a report later.
Who is it for?
For the relationships that matter in everyday life
When you want to understand differences (structure or spontaneity, calm or energy)
When you want to communicate better
When you want to strengthen everyday teamwork
Also relevant when things are going well – many use it as a check-up.
And yes – it helps when you often talk past each other, too.
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How it works
Four steps. Then you have something concrete to talk about.
Create family
Add family members and relationships. Only adults in the family can invite others.
Take tests
Everyone takes an age-adapted test. Answers are private, even within the family.
Get your profile
Everyone gets a free personality profile. To learn more about yourselves or a relationship, you can buy a report about e.g. your partnership or family.
Read the report
Read the report together. It points to patterns and gives suggestions for things to try.
What you get in a report
Reports show strengths, friction patterns, and concrete things to try. Here are excerpts from a family report.
Built on Big Five and IPC — two of the most validated personality frameworks. Read about methodology →
Ready to see your patterns?
Privacy-first
Your answers are used to create your personality profile and only indirectly to generate the reports you choose to buy. Use for product improvement requires active consent.
Answers are private
Only you can see your own test answers. They're not shared with anyone, not even family.
Reports are private
Relationship reports can be read by the relevant adult participants. Individual reports can only be read by the person they're about (including teens). Reports can be shared with others in the family.
Focus on dynamics
Reports describe patterns between you – how you react to each other and where you can adjust.
A quick look
The free profile shows your 10 tendencies. The family overview shows relationships and status.
Your profile
Your 10 tendencies – simply shown
Family overview
Relationships and status in the family
Pricing without surprises
The personality profile is free. Only pay for reports.
Free
€0
Test + your own profile
- Everyone gets a personality profile
- Your 10 tendencies described
- No expiry date
Report
from €20
Report about a relationship
- Describes patterns between you
- Suggestions for small things to try
- Available to the relevant participants
Frequently asked questions
SAMRUM is a tool for families, couples and parent/child relationships. You take a personality test and get reports showing how you work together – strengths, friction and things to try.
No. SAMRUM is not therapy and doesn't replace professional help. It's a conversation tool based on data. For serious challenges, we recommend contacting a professional.
All family types: couples, parents with children, teenagers, blended families. Children from about age 6 can take an age-appropriate version of the test.
The test and your personality profile are free. Relationship reports are purchased individually. See pricing for details.
No. All test answers are private. No one in the family can see what you answered. The report describes patterns between you – not individual answers.
Yes. You can create a profile and take the test alone. When you're ready, invite others. You don't need to wait for anyone.
The test takes 10-20 minutes depending on age. You can pause and continue later. The report is ready within minutes after everyone has answered.
Your data is only used to generate your profile and your reports. We don't sell data, and the AI model is not trained on your answers. Read more on our privacy page.
Yes. Each household creates its own family. Children can exist in both. You start independently — no coordination with the other household needed.
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